People lie to make other people happy I think. Sometimes people say things that are so obviously untrue & I wonder ‘what is the point of that?’ I can see and I imagine everyone else can too can see, that what they are saying is not true, in fact is a lie? Why do people lie? Surely it can’t be an accident.
Why people lie is to make people feel not so bad about themselves. I remember getting a chess board for my birthday when I was a boy. My mum didn’t like the chess pieces but the board was pretty nice so she said we’d throw the pieces out but keep the board. When I told a lady friend of mum’s what mum has suggested, my mum was horrified. She told me never to embarrass her like that again. Basically she told me not to tell the truth which made me realise why people lie.
I guess that is part of growing up. You have to know why people lie and get good at lying yourself. I suppose people lie to me all the time too so as not to hurt me.